Vol. 16 No. 7 July 2006 Monthly
Summit’s services and programs are held at the address above, phone number, 619-562-0833. Our website is www.summitarian.org., where the Newsletter & Sermons can also be read. Mail should be sent to office at the above address.
July 2: "Being Lazy in All Good Conscience"
Rev. Tom Owen-Towle
As we move into Summer, our bodies and souls hanker for a more restful pace. I will underscore the spiritual benefits of a lifestyle of "laziness." Summit's former minister, Rev. Ned Wight, will be with us that day, before he leaves for his new post in New York. A potluck will follow.
July 9: "Holding Tight and Letting Go"
Rev. Bets Wienecke
Rev. Bets Wienecke will describe the process which has proven to result in a successful search for a settled minister. She will serve as coach, consultant and cheerleader to Summit's elected search committee throughout the process.
July 16: "Religious Orientation"
Jai Ghorpade with Ed Henry assisting
Jai will discuss some of his insights gleaned from the survey he circulated at Summit a few months ago. Considering the many facets of religious and non-religious beliefs within the congregation, this should be interesting.
July 23: "UU'ism in San Diego County"
Harriet Wright and Barbara Sorensen
One of our past presidents, John Wilson, gave this sermon in 1993, describing UU'ism's early start in this county. This is timely for all Summitarians today in our new home.
July 30: "Sumi Massen" (It Is Not Finished) Bob Moore and LaMar Rogers
This service will take a look at where we have been and where we are going.
August 6: Title Unknown but our one time intern minister, Rev. Don Stouder, will be with us.
Newsletter of Summit Unitarian Universalist Fellowship
Ministerial Musings Rev. Tom Owen-Towle
The dedication of a new or renovated or expanded building ranks among the most memorable high points of a congregation's life. Like most moments of glory, the high is often followed by a letdown, by the post-construction blues. We can anticipate it, plan around it, or pretend it isn't there, but in the end we have to sing each other through it. - Dan Hotchkiss, Church Consultant
Again, I want to heartily congratulate you, each and every one, for a year of astounding sweat and success. I can't imagine any church enjoying a more collaborative and satisfying adventure than the one we've just shared during 2005-06. And we're blessed with yet another year together; may we lustily sing ourselves through it!
During the past 12 months, Summit has bade farewell to its beloved senior minister; crystallized a 10-year comprehensive plan; mounted face-to-face annual and capital stewardship campaigns; purchased, pledged, and prepared your first sacred site; welcomed with open hearts an interim minister; plus formed a committee to search for your settled minister, coming July of 2007.and, oh yes, carried on all the normal duties of a vital and growing congregation.
According to the Rahe psychosocial stress analysis, Summitarians should be way off the charts. And pieces of some folks probably do teeter on the edge. But it's all worked, because you've been willing to shoulder your load of the freight, with radiance and grit, realizing that you're achieving something of major and enduring worth: namely, creating a liberal religious presence in East County. You've come to understand that life's key isn't believing in the future so much as behaving the future into reality.
But as the song goes, "we've only just begun." Parish pros sagely note the appearance of "post-construction blues" syndrome; so it's my job to assist in keeping us on purpose, to help us avert a slump in program, finances, or morale. After negotiating the adjustments of our first summer in Santee, we'll need to hit the ground running in the fall.
Both our inreach and outreach efforts must be thickened. Toward that end, we have a half dozen adult religious growth options already in the works. A quarterly concert series is underway. There will be familiar as well as fresh fun-fundraisers. We hope to occasion a rotating art gallery, and we have a crew of people working on community outreach. New wrinkles will arise in both our social action efforts and Sunday morning worship. Of course, we must walk a fine line between over-doing and under-doing during the first year in our new home.
Individuals are working assiduously in keeping our grounds beautiful, and we want to welcome and hold newcomers through our own version of radical hospitality. Next year, I will focus my sermons on Unitarian Universalism-our history, theology, evangelism, and identity-so that veterans and newcomers alike can better know and spread the core of our proud and noble faith. Although my job remains to stay close to home (namely, ministering to Summitarians), I'm already on the docket at the Santee Council, to lead the prayer at the beginning of the meeting.
And we hope to properly and wholeheartedly dedicate our wonderful new church sometime in January 2007, after we've tweaked and scuffed it up a bit.
So, my spiritual buddies, I exhort you to stand ready to carry your fair share of shaping Summit into a beloved community with a civic circumference. We will need every one of us delivering our gifts in order to sustain the energy we've launched. If we rest on our laurels, we will slide downhill into irrelevance.
Reportedly, in the last 140 years of Unitarian Universalist presence in San Diego, there have been three failed experiments in East County. But, folks, not this time around. "Failure is impossible," noted our Unitarian fore-sister, Susan. B. Anthony, for we know that we belong to a Love that will not let us go, will not let us down, and will not let us off. "Rest assured," as our Universalist forebears phrased it.
May the summer of 2006 be a restorative time for our individual and communal souls.
Yours in faith, hope, and love.Tom
WHAT WE'RE UP TO IN CHILDREN'S R.E.:
HOME SWEET HOME: June 11 was a day of joyful firsts for both the children and adults of Summit . We're still adjusting to the luxury of actual classrooms and of not having to pack things away each week. The R.E. wing is a very happy work in progress. Thanks to all who have donated furniture, games, toys and books to our holdings.
APPLES FOR OUR TEACHERS: At the June 18 service, we honored the many wonderful people who have worked with Summit's children over the past school year. For those who missed it, hearty thanks to:
Gary Baldwin, Gwen Baldwin, Michelle Beauchamp, Laurel Bernstein, Sandy Bernstein, Neal Biggart, Judi Bonilla, Joe Braunwarth, Mary Braunwarth, Mark Bryning, Phillip Chan, Misha Chapman, Ed Davis, Elly Dotseth, Jacquie Dowdy, Barbara Gates, Jim Gates, Susan Goodrich, Juli Graham, Ed Henry, John McQuaide, Suzanne McQuaide, Harriet Nissenbaum, Katy Orr, Teresa Palombo, Frank Placone-Willey, Kathy Radinovsky, Leslie Robard, Patti Robison-Heyer, Lamar Rogers, Toni Rogers, Stacey Scott, Jack Shu, Mary Ellen Shu, Diane Slagle, Jack Slagle, Barbara Sorensen, Carol Straubinger, Pierre Vaughn, Viraj Ward, Debbie Wingard and Harriet Wright.
CULTURE CAMP SUMMER SUNDAYS: From July 2 through September 3, our summer program will offer ten weeks of "Culture Camp," using a curriculum that aims to foster peace through play. It is based on the idea that understanding leads to appreciation, which opens the way to empathy, and empathy is necessary for true peace. Different cultures (Australia, Brazil, Ghana, Greece, India, Morocco and Native North America) will be visited, and the sessions will include insights into cultural practices as well as stories, music, crafts, games and food. Let me know if there's a particular culture you might like to help out with.
MANY THANKS to our June volunteers: Barbara Sorensen, Mary Braunwarth, Leslie Robard, Juli Graham, Stacey Scott, Susan Goodrich, Mary Ellen Shu, Misha Chapman, Michelle Beauchamp, Teresa Palombo and Judi Bonilla.
Connie Henry, Acting D.R.E.
(619) 460-4794 / conniehenry@cox.net
CAPITAL CAMPAIGN
All Contributors (101 units as of 6/8/06)
Thank you to everyone who made a commitment to Summit's Capital Campaign!
Each and every gift is important. Please let us know if there are any errors or omissions. We would like to thank everyone appropriately and will republish this list in the fall when remaining members have been visited.
The Greeters at our Sunday Services are requesting Members to wear their name tags to church so they can tell you from the visitors.
The Honoring/Memorial Fund
Freethinkers
As usual we will meet at 7 p.m. the 1st and 3rd Tuesday of the month. However, there will be no meeting on the 4th of July. On the 18th we will meet in the RE area. The format will be to have each person bring a newspaper clipping or short magazine article to discuss at the meeting. Hopefully, there will be time for several articles. So, bring an article on any subject you think worthy of discussion and we will provide at least as many opinions about it as there are people in the room.
There will be no meeting in August but we will return to a normal schedule in September.
Lunch Bunch
Now that we are having services in our new building in Santee, after church services you may be extra hungry for food or fellowship. If so, find both with the Lunch Bunch, which will be eating together about Sunday noon on July 9th at Mimi's, 9812 Mission Gorge Road (northeast corner of Cuyamaca), Santee, phone 562-2644; on the16th at Michael's Grill, 9621 Mission Gorge Road, Santee, phone 258-2110; on the 23rd at Coco's, 1025 Fletcher Parkway, El Cajon, phone 442-9271. Last chance in July will be on the 30th at Olive Garden, 9800 Mission Gorge Road, Santee, phone 562-1622. Be there and eat square!
If you let Carol Rawlins know you're coming, she can arrange for a table the right size.
The Scene at Summit's August edition deadline will be:
July 24 Deadline/
July 27 Mailing
Linda Peck, the editor
Congregational
Meeting
June 18, 2006
A Committee Summit is planned for July, chaired by Rex and Vice-President elect LaMar Rogers.
Rex discussed Summit's application for UUA's First Home Grant. Moved, seconded and passed unanimously to approve receipt of a Unitarian Universalist Association First Home Grant.
The 2006/2007 Budget information was provided to members for review and discussed. Moved, seconded and passed unanimously to accept the budget of $209,603.
Rebate Fundraising
It's easy to earn merchant contributions for Summit through our Rebate Fundraising Program.
Call Fran Spevak (469-9836) for information, or look for the flyer on the information table at church.
Social Action Corner
Service Is Our Prayer
Our Social Action Committee met in our new home for the first time on June 18. Potential new committee members, Viraj Ward, Tyra Myles and Toyce Hughes, joined us. Not wanting to waste any time, one of our primary agenda items was searching out ways to integrate with our new Santee neighbors.
Led by Tyra Myles and Elizabeth McHugh, the research has begun to identify organizations, events, and community groups we can collaborate with in our quest to make a difference.
Viraj Ward volunteered to see how Summit could become active by establishing an East County Chapter of Amnesty International. Rene Schad is seeking ways to publicize the Social Action Committee's community outreach.
Established by Barbara Gates, Summit's participation in the Fair Trade Coffee Project has been a big success. Lynn Slaughter and Vic White have agreed to accept co-stewardship of the Fair Trade Coffee project and continue the good works initiated by Barbara. Many thanks to Barbara for her initiative in getting this economic justice project in place, and to Lynn and Vic for volunteering to carry on.
How can you help Summit's efforts in social action?
Financial - Sunday, July 2 - Don't forget to put an extra dollar in the plate for our Esperanza student, Lina Marleth Martinez.
Goods - Mark your calendars for our July 9 collection of baby goods in support of Crisis House. Please bring formula, baby food, diapers and baby wipes. These are much-needed items for families in crisis. If you are going to be gone vacationing, bring your goods to the SAC storage area in the office.
People Power - Please join us for the next Social Action Committee meeting on Sunday, July 16, at 8:30 am in the conference room. Everyone is welcome.
Sunday Morning Meditation Offered at 8:00 a.m.
We will have a meditation/prayer session from 8:00 - 9:00 a.m. each Sunday morning before the service begins.
Wednesday Morning Prayer/ Meditation
Please note: we will start our Wed. morning prayer/meditation group at 8:30 am from now on. This will give us more driving time to get to our new home as we are scattered far and wide.
Within the Congregation
Sally Gross had to go to emergency recently for an infection in her leg. Remember her with calls and prayers.
Continue to remember Jacquie Dowdy in your thoughts and healing prayers as her broken leg heals. She is doing well at home.
From Lynn Nelson - First, thank you all who offered up prayers or sent positive thoughts my way... I started my first day today at North Central University here in Prescott, AZ. Everyone seems so nice and I really like what I'm doing. I just wanted to let you all know how much I appreciated your prayers. Love, Lynn ManyFires
Our hearts go out to John and Suzann Mcquaide and their family at this time. John's mother, Doris, passed away on June 17th. Her long life was celebrated in Summit's sanctuary on June 24th.
To those who remember Anne Wall, we would like to acknowledge she had been an early friend of Summit and member of First Church. Anne passed away April 2nd, 2006, in Portand, OR. She is remembered at Summit for her delightful "Supper and Scrabble" nights offered at the Service Auctions.
Hello Summitarians!
The dust is starting to settle in the office a bit but there are new changes to adjust to all of the time. Bob and Dolores are hanging up their "Office Volunteer" hats for a well deserved respite. They have held the fort and bravely answered questions about Unitarian Universalism and talked with sales people and Jehovah Witnesses whenever they graced our doors. I know they will greatly miss serving Summit in this capacity and I will miss their strong and dear presence with me.
With that said, we need to find folks willing to fill their shoes and help in the office. The tasks are answering the phones, folding brochures, making copies and calls sometimes, labeling mailings, and whatever else I can think of. We're not pushy so we will never give anyone more than they can do. We are also short handed doing the newsletter.
And again, thank you to everyone for your warm hearts and support of my position in Summit. I am so proud to be a part of this Beloved Community!
Sincerely yours, Linda Peck
Hello, Enthusiastic
Summit Members and Friends!
Alix Hart and I have been charged with the task of being the "Aesthetics Committee" co-chairs. We will do our best to solicit ideas from you when we begin to design the balance of our new facility. While we would like to see Summit's facilities evolve into stunning and spiritually uplifting areas , we cannot accept everything that the congregation might wish to donate. We ask you to please call either Alix or me to find out if we can use what you would like to donate. Please do not bring items to our new home to store without checking with us first.
Thank you, Elly Dotseth
Women Together Retreat
September 23, 24, 25, 2006
Camp Stevens in Julian
The San Diego UU Church will celebrate the 25th anniversary of Women Together at Camp Stevens in Julian on September 23, 24, 25, 2006. This silver jubilee celebration will include Rev. Carolyn Owen-Towle, one of the founding women of this traditional annual event.
San Diego UU Church extends an invitation to the women of Summit UU Fellowship to participate in this retreat. This will allow our Summit sisters to meet other UU women while engaging in a three-day retreat that has a 25-year history of events, ceremonies, and comradeship for women, by women.
Application forms for the retreat will be sent to interested women in late May. Registration will be on a first-come, first-served basis. Please contact Pat Summers at plsummers@cox.net or phone (619) 589-0755 if you are interested.
Schoolpop Visa Card
The Schoolpop Chase Visa Card earns 1% for Summit on all purchases made with the card, whether you are vacationing or just around town. Visit www.schoolpop.com to apply for the Schoolpop Visa Card and to register with Schoolpop. Summit's Schoolpop I.D. number is 0629279.
CAPITAL CAMPAIGN
All Contributors (101 units as of 6/8/06)
Anonymous friend
Anderson, Kay
Anderson, Rhonda
Averette, Tony
Baldwin, Gwen & Gary
Beauchamp, Miles & Michelle
Bernstein, Laurel & Sandy
Bidell, (Gini?)
Biggart, Neal
Boone, Betty & Jim
Bourdeau, Phyllis & Lee
Braunwarth, Joe & Mary
Bryning, Pat & Mark
Buckles, Mark
Chan, Joan & Philip
Chapman, Misha & Russ
Cleland, Karen & Jamie
Curry, Gwenda & Ron
Davies, Lois
Davis, Ed
Davis, Carol & Ken
Dessel, Mary & Norm
Dixon, Janet
Dotseth, Elly
Downing, Mac
Dryden, Mary & Robert
English, David & Terri Keeley
Gaarder, Ferne & Al Mork
Garvey, Jeff & Lisa
Gates, Barbara
Gelineau, Gloria & Frank
Ghorpade, Suzanne & Jai
Gifford, Ellen
Gille, Patricia & Len
Goodrich, Susan
Graham, Julie
Graham, Rex
Greene, Dorothy
Hall, Anne
Harper, Elaine & Richard Wilkie
Hart, Alix & Mark Wheeler
Henry, Connie & Ed
Hoctor, Michael
Hunsaker, Al
Jacobson, Vivienne & Charles
Krauss, Marian
Kuhwald, Belle
Levin, Rene
Long, Cathy
Makeever, Lee
McHugh, Liz
McQuaide, Suzanne & John
Metzger, Pat & Erv
Moore, Dolores & Bob
Morgan, Don & Rita
Myles, Tyra
Nelson, Warren & Eddie Chance
Nims, Dolores
Nissenbaum, Harriet
Olson, Ann
Orr, Katy
Orth, Barbara & Rod
Osoyos, Roberta
Owen-Towle, Carolyn & Tom
Page, Juana
Palmer, Mary
Palombo, Teresa
Peck, Linda
Perry, Barbara
Placone-Willey, Pilar & Frank
Priest, Pauline
Rawlins, Carol & Wendell
Robard, Leslie
Robinson-Heyer, Patti
Rodriguez, Angel & Sonia
Rogers, Toni & LaMar
Schad, Rene
Scherrer, Brian
Schmitz, Gini
Scott, Stacey & Glenn Sasaki
Shu, Jack & Mary Ellen
Simmonds, Eleanor
Slagle, Diane & Jack
Slaughter, Lynne
Sorenson, Barbara
Spevak, Fran
Steussy, Chris & Norma Pizarro
Stouder, Rev. Don
Stowel, Kit & Trixie
Straubinger, Carol
Summers, Pat
Thomas, Barbara & Leonard
Thompson, Richard
Tuttle, Deena
Vaughn, Pierre & Debbie Wingard
Weed, Cindy
Weedman, Mark
White, Victor & Jennifer
Wight, Ned
Williams, Pam
Wright, Harriet
Summit's Search for a Settled Minister
Ministerial Search Committee
Toni Rogers (Chair)
Gwen Baldwin
Pat Bryning
Ferne Gaarder
Wendell Rawlins
Pierre Vaughn
Mark Wheeler
The Ministerial Search Committee is embarking on an exciting journey. We'll be Searching for a new Settled Minister to replace our Interim Minister, Rev. Tom Owen-Towle, who will be with us until the Summer of 2007. Over the next few months we'll have much information to share with you, so stay tuned to our website and the newsletter. We will also be depending on each and every Summitarian to let us know your hopes and dreams about the kind of Minister you envision who can lead us forward. Your input is crucial. Mark your calendars for the following events and be sure to participate in all of them.
Sunday, July 9, 2006
"Holding Tight and Letting Go" -- Rev. Bets Wienecke, the UUA's Ministerial Settlement Representative, will conduct our Sunday service and Circle Discussion describing the process which, hopefully, will lead to a successful search for a settled minister.
Sunday, August 20, 2006
"Keeping the Dream Alive" -- The Ministerial Search Committee will lead our Sunday service about the dreams we have for our future settled Minister. Following the service, we will have small group discussions and will begin the survey process to learn your hopes, dreams and preferences.
Sunday, October 22, 2006
"Beyond Categorical Thinking"-- UUA representatives will present our Sunday service on promoting inclusive thinking to help prevent unfair discrimination in the ministerial search process. A three-hour Workshop will follow the service.
Sunday, April 22 thru Sunday, April 29, 2007
Candidating Week -- The Ministerial Candidate selected by the Search Committee to be voted upon by the congregation will be in town for a full week. He/She will be giving two sermons and will be available to meet with the entire congregation. The Congregational vote for the Candidate will be on Sunday, April 29.
For more extensive information on this process, you can view "The Settlement Handbook for Ministers and Congregations" at uua.org/programs/ministry/settlement/tools.html. Bets Wienecke provided a shortened version (one page), available in the office.
Ministerial Search Committee
Calling all Gardeners--
The grounds looked great on 6/11! Now we need to try to keep them that way. A work party is scheduled for Saturday, July 1. Bring rakes, trowels, shovels, hoes, etc...and also remember gloves, hats and sunscreen.
Please join us from 8:00 to noon. If you want to beat the heat and come early, that's good too. Also, we're meeting as a group in the conference room on Sunday, July 2, after the potluck. Please bring ideas to help maintain and possibly reevaluate the landscape at our new home.
Any questions, contact Susan Goodrich at (619)322-1725.
PSWIRL - An Adult
Mountain Retreat
Sunday, Aug. 20 - Friday, Aug. 25, 2006
Theme speaker, Rev. Jon Dobrer, will present "Islam, Judaism & Christianity Intertwined: What Does It Mean for You?" This is offered through the PSWD and takes place at Camp deBenneville Pines. Relax, swin, or choose from a variety of activities. Scholarships are available.
More information and reservation forms are available in the Summit office.
UU Joke About Santee
Here is a report from our ministerial search committee about some of the candidates.
Adam: good man, but problems with his wife.
Noah: Prone to unrealistic building projects.
Joseph: A big thinker, but braggart, believes in dream-interpreting, and has a prison record.
Solomon: Great preacher, but our church would never hold all his wives!
Located in the north end of the El Cajon Valley (el cajon - the bin, the drawer, where Spaniards used to pasture their cattle), Santee has an interesting history. In 1877, George A. Cowles (pronounced coals), the Raisin King of America, purchased 4,000 acres in this valley after roaming the continent in search of the perfect climate for his grapevines. He brought in a railroad and donated land for a school. The little community became known as Cowleston (coal-ston). Cowles died childless three years later. His widow married a councilman from Los Angeles named Milton Santee. In 1893, Milton Santee changed the official town name to Santee. Milton Santee never did live here. Cowles School became Santee School, and Cowles Avenue was changed to Mission Gorge Road. Only nearby Cowles Mountain retains Cowles' name, and even that we mispronounce as Cow-els Mt. It's Cowles (coals) Mountain.
I learned the above from a newspaper article by Harriet Wade, whom I met in the Santee Post Office in 1999. She was President of the Historical Society. In her younger days she had horses and taught hundreds of children in the valley to play polo. When we moved to El Cajon 18 years ago, on Sat. nights, one could make the three minute drive from El Cajon and do the Texas Two-Step at any number of establishments. A few of these dancing venues still exist. -By Carol Rawlins
Bumper Stickers That Make Me Smile -
Cleverly disguised as a responsible adult.
How do I set a lazer printer to stun?
Minimum wage for politicians!
In Memoriam
Elizabeth (Betty) Pengelley
This spring Summit UU Fellowship received a very generous gift of $15,000 from the estate of Betty Pengelley, who had gone to live with her daughter in Washington state several years ago. Betty and her husband Des, who preceded her in death, are still fondly remembered for their spirited participation in this Fellowship. The person we each met when we first visited Summit was Des, Greeter Extraordinaire. And he always knew our names the next time! Betty was our source of information around election time. She was a lovely politician.
Betty and Des were able to make this gift through planned giving. In the future Summit will be exploring various avenues of planned giving and sharing it with anyone who is interested. Watch for announcements in The Scene at Summit.